Dr. Roxanne Arnal, CFP®
Taming the Holiday Shopping Impulse: A Guide to Reducing Emotional Spending at Christmas
‘Tis the season to be jolly, but for many of us, it’s also the season to spend beyond our means. The pressure to buy the perfect gifts, deck the halls with extravagant decorations, and indulge in festive feasts can lead to a surge in emotional spending during the holiday season. The consequences can linger long after the decorations are put away, leaving us with financial stress and regret. However, there are strategies to reduce emotional spending at Christmas without sacrificing the joy of the season.
- Create a Budget and Stick to It
One of the most effective ways to curb emotional spending is to establish a holiday budget. Begin by determining how much you can comfortably spend without jeopardizing your financial well-being. Consider your regular expenses, savings goals, and any existing debt. Once you have a clear understanding of your financial situation, allocate a specific amount for holiday-related expenses such as gifts, decorations, and entertaining. Make a list of everyone you plan to buy gifts for and allocate a set amount for each person. Sticking to your budget is crucial to avoiding emotional spending.
- Shop with Purpose
Avoid aimless browsing and shopping sprees. Make a list of the items you need to buy, and, if possible, do some research in advance to compare prices and find the best deals. This way, you can focus on your intended purchases, reducing the chances of impulse buying. Online shopping can be especially tempting, as it’s effortless to click and add items to your cart. Take your time and resist the urge to add unnecessary items to your cart.
- Embrace Thoughtful Gift-Giving
Consider shifting the focus of gift-giving from quantity to quality. Thoughtful, meaningful gifts often mean more than expensive ones. Personalized gifts or experiences can create lasting memories and express your love and appreciation without breaking the bank. Homemade gifts or heartfelt letters can also be a great way to show your sentiment without overspending.
- Set Realistic Expectations
Manage your expectations and remember that the true spirit of the holiday season isn’t measured by the price tag on your gifts or the extravagance of your decorations. Keep in mind that most people don’t expect or want you to go into debt for their gifts. Open and honest communication with friends and family about your budget can help alleviate the pressure and foster a more meaningful celebration.
- Be Mindful of Emotional Triggers
Recognize the emotional triggers that lead to overspending. Stress, guilt, or the desire to impress others can all fuel emotional spending. When you find yourself in a situation that triggers these emotions, take a step back. Consider alternative ways to cope with stress. Emotional awareness can help you make more rational spending decisions.
- Delay Gratification
When you spot something that catches your eye, especially online, make it a habit to delay the purchase for at least 24 hours. This cooling-off period allows you to reconsider whether you genuinely need the item or if it’s just a fleeting desire. In many cases, the urge to buy will dissipate, and you’ll save money by avoiding impulse purchases.
- Unplug and Disconnect
Online shopping and the constant barrage of holiday sales and advertisements can be overwhelming. To reduce emotional spending, consider taking a break from social media and unsubscribe from marketing emails. Limiting your exposure to these temptations can help you stay focused on your budget and prevent unnecessary purchases.
Christmas is a season of joy, love, and togetherness, but it shouldn’t become a source of financial stress. By creating a budget, shopping with purpose, and embracing thoughtful gift-giving, you can reduce emotional spending without sacrificing the holiday spirit. Remember that the true essence of Christmas lies in the love and connections we share with our loved ones, not the price tags on our gifts. By being mindful and intentional in your spending, you can have a more joyful, less financially burdened holiday season.
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